i kept telling him that i needed room to grow and find myself as a person. not just as a woman but as an independent entity. i told him i needed to get in touch with my uniqueness, but he couldn't handle that. he said i was driving him away. do you think i was driving him away, dr. sobol? i just can't believe it's over between me and steve. maybe there's still hope. but what should i do? dr. sobol?