all set for the big day, ben? my friends call me 'captain.' for what? ben, there's a lot i'd like to say to you, but i'm going to skip the big father-in-law speech because i know you've been married before. i served in korea, son. i don't think you'd be laughing if you'd seen some of the things i saw. you're paul vitti. the mobster. nod your head and smile. now, you listen to me, goombah. i know what your game is, and you'd better call it quits, because if you and your paisans do anything to hurt my little girl, i'll kill you. understand? nod and smile.