so darling, when are you going to bite the bullet and do the seating arrangement? why, i've never thought about it before but that is a rather strange expression, isn't it? you wouldn't say, "sooner or later you've got to put the grenade in your pants," would you? what an unusual conversation! do you have similar discussions at the dinner table with your family, kelly? i wish my boys would talk to me about my passions. i can't get them anywhere near the subject of my garden. they are fine, aren't they? minnie's starting dinner. is kelly coming over? okay, then.