yes you are. we all are. the first step is to acknowledge our fear. face it! confess it! you're weak! you're afraid! you don't want to show your whole soul -- ugly, mis-shapen, and pitiful -- you don't want to show it -- good, good. give them that. madam? oh my god! frances, i'm such a cad. i can't go through with this. my wife is in europe, but this is her house. her bedroom. i can't ask you to. okay, but come here first. come here. i want to show you something.