and ladies. so this is where you are. you take work seriously. you're rather a serious boy. you're sure you want to work tonight? see you tomorrow. i've got a pen. no, but seriously, dieter's right. my parents, i can't even talk to them. i don't love them. how could i? how could anyone love them? because they've told themselves so many lies, they can't remember the truth, let alone admit it. isn't that why we signed up for this seminar? speaking for myself. so what is it about? what do you think? you've taken your time. where are you going?