who's idea was it? then why did you? your husband? do you really think so? why is he worried? fireball? it's hard because i'm a complete stranger and what we're talking about is incredibly personal. besides, the first time most people come here, a part of them is wondering if i'm gonna think they're crazy. don't worry, i'm required to have at least three sessions in order to commit. now that's a joke. i have some training at helping people through the stressful moments in life, one of which you may or may not be experiencing. if you want to get some stuff off your chest, great. if not. mm-hmm. how do you know it's a she? what does she look like? do you have any idea who she is? fine. try to contact her. try to communicate with her somehow. can't hurt. and i think it's important you find out what she wants. nope. i don't know. my aunt used to use my uncle's old pajamas and a candle. well, that's what we're here for. whether you imagined it or not, you actually saw and heard things that frightened you. that gave you reason for concern. your friend saw them. you think you influenced her? you're saying you willed these events to happen? did you ever find out what it wanted? do you? what do you think? guess. have you been hurt? you were in an accident? how's your marriage? what? that can't feel good. fair enough. but you should know that i'm far less concerned with whether things you saw "existed," than i am with why you saw them.